Tuesday, December 29, 2009

What personality type are you?

People often wonder why it is that when they finally get the opportunity to meet someone that they have an interest in, that there is a personality conflict which undoubtly, makes them incompatible.

Every person has their own individual personality but it will fall into one of the following catagories.

An Extravert is a personality type that seeks out thrills in life, is outgoing, assertive, gregarious, has many friends and enjoys making new social contacts, has no problems being affectionate, enjoys being in large crowds, talking and are usually upbeat type of people.

An Introvert is a personality type that is not a thrill seeker, is reserved and quite, not sociable, usually will not start up a conversation much less carry one on, usually has a very small group of friends and does not seek out new social contacts, are homebodies, not very outgoing and usually does not seek out stimulation from others as their own thoughts and imaginations are stimulating enough. Introverts are very low keyed people.

Many times, people meet and get involved with a person with a personality type different from their own only to have things not work out so well. So, the next time you are contemplating getting involved with someone, make sure you know what their personality type is, Extravert or Introvert.

A social, carefree, outgoing person will not get along to well with a reserved, quite, unsociable homebody. :)

Why women stay single

Ever wonder why most women get turned off by a man and decide to stay single? Well, the RAW truth is that most women will come to that decision if:

1. 75% of your vocabulary is limited to cuss, degrading and or demeaning words. Consider taking a vocabulary course.

2. You are looking for someone to clean your house, cook your meals and do your laundry. Call your mom or hire a maid.

3. You do not know the true meaning of partnership, compassion, passion, romanticism, honesty, trust, individuality, respect, consideration, dependability, liar, cheater, player, friendship, deceiver and accountability. Pick up a dictionary or go to counseling.

4. You are looking for someone to share your world but you have no interest in sharing theirs. Buy a dog.

5. You are arrogant, a alcoholic, drug user, self centered, closed minded, a introvert, home body, out of shape, have no drive, depth, goals or direction in life, have baby mama or ex-wife/girlfriend drama. Do yourself and the next person a HUGE favor, take a personal journey and self evaluate your life before getting involved with anyone.

6. You can not carry on an intelligent or casual conversation. Take a communications course.

7. You are their height or shorter. Most women like to wear heels when they go out so, would like to be the same height as their partner.

8. You don't enjoy just being alive and living life. Occasionally look in the obituaries. You might find yourself there.

9. You can not partake in the everyday responsibilities of being in a relationship. Seek advice from a relationship expert.

10. You are fake, put on a front and wear different masks. Take a course to learn who you really are.

11. You are looking for just sex. Buy a blow up doll or hire a prostitute. A woman should not be your personal play toy because the wrath of a woman scorned buy such, is more furious than being in hell.

12. You are looking for Miss. Barbie Doll. You can find her in the toy section in Wal-Mart.

13. You are not employed, live with mom and dad and have no initiative to better yourself. The Work Force Commissions, Job Corps and Military have many openings.

Guys!! please wake up and clean your act up! :)

Just Friends

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where the person you just ended a relationship with wants to be friends?

The true meaning behind the words "Just Friends" is INTERDEPENDENCE WITHOUT COMMITMENT.

JUST FRIENDS, is a title used by one or both of the partners at the end of a relationship that is filled with deceit, dishonesty and the intent to mislead. It is used because the person ending the relationship, does not have the backbone to be honest about his/her feelings and to gracefully walk away from the relationship.

JUST FRIENDS is often a card played at the end of a relationship because he/she wants to keep the other person on a string for whatever reason. Mainly, because he/she has not found someone else yet, he/she may want to leave the door open to walk in and out of as they please and or keep the option open to use the person for his/her on sexually satisfaction. It is a game of users and a very malicious one that creates FALSE hope and heartache.

Do you really think that after having an intimate relationship with someone where a bond, love and feelings were created, you can just revert back to a friendship? Trying to return to a friendship status after the end of a intimate relationship, is an illusion that people create just to cling on the something that has ended and allows a person to be used as a doormat.

JUST FRIENDS